An affirming, accessible, evidence-based program designed to help you grow together.
Finding relationship help that feels inclusive can be tough. That's why this version of the OurRelationship program is designed with same-sex couples in mind.
The program combines expert guidance with LGBTQ-affirming content to help you:
Improve communication
Deepen emotional connection
Work through challenges together
Whether you’re looking for lesbian couples therapy, gay couples therapy, or support for any same-sex partnership, OurRelationship offers a safe, culturally sensitive space.
Start building a healthier, more fulfilling relationship at your own pace.
Complete the program in just six weeks.
8 activities, 10 minutes each, per week.
Accessible on your phone, tablet, or computer.
Work individually, on your schedule, and share progress with your partner at key moments (in person or long distance).
Work through the program on your own or with a coach.
Choose between an initial orientation call or weekly 20-minute sessions.
Select from a variety of affirming coaches.
Fewer communication problems and arguments
Less emotional distance
Improved trust
Recovery from infidelity or other painful events
Improved symptoms like anxiety and depression
Fewer fights about money, parenting, or other topics

You can choose a couples program to work through together, or you can select the “individual” program if your partner is not ready to dive in quite yet.
All of our coaches are extensively trained in helping you get the most out of the OurRelationship program.
The programs we offer are online, self-help programs – they’re not therapy. In many ways, our programs are better than therapy because you can do them on your own time from any location. Our results show that the programs are just as effective as in-person marriage counseling.
Yes, the OurRelationship program is accessible on your phone, tablet, or computer, making it easy to access and complete the activities wherever you are.
Absolutely! The program is designed for couples at any stage of their relationship. Whether you’re newly together or have been in a relationship for years, the tools and support provided will help strengthen your bond and improve communication.
The content is specifically crafted to be inclusive and respectful of LGBTQ+ relationships. It addresses issues that are relevant to same-sex couples, providing a safe space to explore and grow together while ensuring that your unique experiences are understood and validated.
Yes, your privacy is important. All activities and coaching sessions are confidential, and you can work through the program securely at your own pace, knowing that your personal information is protected.
You can complete the program at your own pace, but most of our couples complete it in one to two months. If you’re working with a coach, you’ll have access to that coach for up to two months.
Yes. Our programs have been tested and the results show that the majority of participants saw improvement in their relationships, were satisfied, and would recommend them to a friend. Learn more on our evidence page.
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