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Take The First Step Toward A Better Relationship What’s Involved in This Program?

The same-gender version of the OurRelationship program is a LGBTQ+ affirming online relationship program. Many same-gender couples feel they are not represented in the relationship services available to them. Thus, we designed this version to provide couples like you with a program that is inclusive, affirming, accessible, and culturally-sensitive to the needs of members of the LGBTQ+ community.

In our program for same-gender couples, you and your partner will work together on online activities to understand and solve your relationship issues. You’ll develop important communication skills, learn to reconnect and trust each other, and explore topics that same-gender couples potentially have to deal with – including discrimination and lack of support from family or colleagues. You can complete these activities on your own schedule and on your phone, computer, or tablet.

 

Do the OurRelationship Program With a Coach!

Your coach will help support you and your partner talk through difficult issues that come up during the program and celebrate the gains you’ve made. Your coach will also help tailor the online content to the specific needs of your relationship.

You’ll have four 20-minute calls with your coach that will happen before, during, and at the end of the program. Daytime, evening, and weekend calls are available. You’ll have access to your coach for two months; after that time, you can finish the program on your own.

Please note that our coaches are not therapists – they help support you to get the most out of the self-directed OurRelationship program. For more information on our coaches, click here.

Not interested in working with a coach?

No problem! Many of our couples prefer the privacy of working through their relationship difficulties on their own. We recommend you choose the option that is most comfortable for you and your partner.

Sign Up Now!

You’ll get access to all of our online tools so you can learn new skills and start building a better relationship.

Start with Coach: $150 Self-Guided: $50

How it Works In Four Simple Steps

Step 1 – Select a Program

The first step is to select from either starting the program with the coach or without a coach. After that, you’ll need to create an account to access our online material.

Step 2 – Get Started

Once you’ve registered you can begin to explore your program immediately. No matter which option you choose, you’ll get an online self-driven program designed to help you and your partner understand the problems in your relationship and how to solve them.

Step 3 – Learn and Grow

As you go through your program, you’ll complete lessons online on your own. After you’ve finished a section, you and your partner will come together to talk about what you’ve learned.

Step 4 – Put In The Time

Our programs can deliver real results, but it won’t happen overnight. Generally, these programs take between 7-8 hours to complete over the course of two months. In the program, we’ll teach you new ways to communicate and help you identify changes to strengthen your relationship. If you and your partner complete one of our programs, we’re confident that your relationship will improve.

Same-Sex Couples have successfully used the program to solve the following types of problems:

  • Communication problems / too many arguments
  • Emotional distance or lack of love
  • Lack of trust or infidelity/cheating
  • Fights about money, parenting, or other specific topics
  • Difficulty recovering from painful events in the past
  • And many others

Watch one couple’s experience using the OurRelationship program – as seen on CBS news.

Outcomes

You may be thinking, “This program sounds good, but how do I know it really works?” Good question! There are many online programs that promise incredible results, so what makes our program different?

  • Unlike other programs, ours has been tested as part of a nationwide, randomized trial with more than 2,000 people.
  • Results of these studies showed that people were more satisfied with their relationship, argued less, and closer.
  • In these studies, the programs also improved symptoms for people who were feeling depressed, anxious, or having other problems.
  • 94% of participants were satisfied with our program
  • 97% of participants would recommend us to a friend.

Read one of our studies

Does My Partner Have To Do This Program With Me?

Our research has shown that these programs are most effective when both partners work on their relationship together.

If you already know that your partner won’t complete the program with you, click here to find out more about a version of the program you can do on your own.

Learn more

If you’re not sure if your partner is willing to do this program with you, try the following ideas:

  • Present it as a way to improve your relationship — not your partner.
  • Remember to talk about how important your relationship is to you and that you’re invested in making it better.
  • Encourage your partner to think about things he/she wants to change in your relationship – this program is a perfect opportunity to make that happen.
  • If you’re worried your partner will feel cornered, write him/her a note, or email the site to your partner to look over.

This has been the first time in our marriage where we can both be completely honest with each other even knowing that honesty sometimes hurts. We have created a stronger bond together because of this.

Chris

During our “conversation” my wife and I felt so connected, because we saw the work that each us was willing to put in and more importantly express some of our hidden emotions in a constructive manner.

Evan

I wasn’t really expecting much from this program. My husband and I had gone to traditional therapy before with little success. However, I was pleasantly surprised by how much I learned about both of us and our relationship.

Cassie

Sign Up Now!

You’ll get access to all of our online tools so you can learn new skills and start building a better relationship.

Start with Coach: $150 Self-Guided: $50

Try a Free Lesson

Fill out the form to access a sample lesson for our program.

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